The Baker Bunch

Wellness Update - Week 1

2012-02-02T20:46:00.000-07:00

"For I will restore health to you And heal you of your wounds, says the Lord."
- Jeremiah 30:17

Have you ever experienced a time where nothing seemed to go as planned or expected? This has been one of "THOSE" weeks for me! The moment I declared commitment, opposition arose. Now, this in and of itself did not surprise me - having some understanding about how the Adversary works; but the change of direction that has occurred did. This kind of sudden change in the past would have sent me into an emotional eating frenzy! I am happy to report that with the love and support of my Sweetheart and Godly friends; I have been able to continue implementing better habits to support my overall wellness! My Sugar Addiction, however, continues to rise up loud and clear; so, I continue to pray through moments of craving.
In Galatians 5:22-23, we learn that the gifts of the Spirit include Self-Control. Now, as a Spirit-filled daughter of thee King, I want to bear good fruit! Likewise, I know that God Is in ALL areas, amen? So. how can I honor Him in some areas of my life and not ALL areas? This humbling thought brings me to my knees!! I begin to seek forgiveness for trusting God as my provider, but not allowing Him to restore my health! How can I stand for God as my physician, and not include my addiction to sugar? The joy of reflecting is that I can make new choices based on truth, rather than denial! So it is, that in spite of Big changes this week, I choose to place my trust in God to heal my wounds and restore my health!! I will continue to drink more water and less soda. I will continue to exercise at least 3 days per week, and I will eat smaller meals every 3 hours. These wise choices will require great Self-Control as I better support my body, and I thank God that He is faithful!

Time to Address my BSS!

2012-01-24T13:13:00.001-07:00

But those who wait on the Lord,

Shall RENEW their STRENGTH;

They shall mount up with wings like eagles,

They shall Run and NOT be Weary,

They shall Walk and NOT Faint!

- Isaiah 40:31 (NKJV)

Do you ever get tired of your BSS? I am!! This awareness of my Body, Soul and Spirit is NOT new!! In fact, this has been a consistent topic of consideration for most of my life. I admit that in my early years, or "back in the day" when I was young in the Lord as well as my body; I did not think much on this Powerful Connection. My body was in shape, I thought I practiced good self-control, and I thought I had good understanding in the ways of God...THOUGHT being the key! 22 years ago, however, I began a journey of realization, reality, and revelation!! It all began when I gave my heart to my Beloved, who happens to be a Master Fitness Coach/Nutrition Expert. This is a man who fully understands how to consistently operate with a High Level of Commitment, Courage, and Choice!! His level of understanding about the Body, Soul, Spirit Connection challenged my complacency; and offered an opportunity for me to get real!! It really wasn't until after our second daughter was born, however, that things became personal!!

Shortly after her triumphant arrival, I began noticing a change in my body. No longer could I consume large quantities of French Fries without gaining weight. Likewise, once I had added pounds, it became Much more difficult to loose them! That was nearly 20 years ago, and things went from bad to worse in regards to my Body. To add perspective, I weighed 89 lbs when I was 5 months pregnant with our first daughter, and today I weigh in at 160 + or -.

10/1992

Today

Needless to say, I have grown weary in my Body!! As I continue to wonder who is the Large Woman in any photo of me, I have become the "Queen of Denial"!! I have in-turn focused much of the past several years on my Spirit - strengthening and building my relationship with God, as well as addressing my Soul - emotions, mind and will. I began spending time in God's word and studying under Wise Counsel about what God has to say in these two areas of my life; and as a result, have gained wisdom and understanding! I have corrected some wrong thinking about my "heart condition" and have been able to align with God's word on Authority - Controlling my Emotions rather than Them controlling me!! I have invested time in putting God's word in me, so that the overflow of my heart would bear good fruit. All of this has served me and is Good, however without clearly heading the connection between Body, Soul and Spirit; I am clear that I cannot walk in the Fullness of God's Best for me and my life! Darn-it!! I had so hoped that as I strengthened my Soul and Spirit, my Body would somehow automatically follow - that I would wake one day without an addiction to sugar, that I would be filled with super-natural vitality, that pounds would easily fall off...this thinking proves my status as "Queen of Denial"!!

This May, I will be 40 years old; and lately, God has been profoundly dealing with me about my Body! I began to see in reality rather than delusion. I began to notice the fatigue, weird cycles, tighter fitting clothes. As I open my heart to "Hear" what God says about our bodies, I am immediately drawn to 1 Corinthians 6:19 - "Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are Not your own?" So, either I believe that God IS or I don't; and given that I do...I feel empowered to step into a new season where I allow the Holy Spirit who is in me to move through me and heal my body!! I declare today that I AM the one to break the generational curse of Obesity, High Blood Pressure, Diabetes, and Cancer in my family! I choose to honor God by reforming my body as His temple! I recognize the Urgent Need to make new choices so that I may be an example of Isaiah 40:31.

This year, my husband and I have stepped into Destiny; and as Youth Ministers, I feel an added opportunity to practice what we preach!! I have been convicted in calling our Youth to Rise Up, Dive In, and BE a Doer of the Word not only a Hearer! THIS is my moment to join them in taking on a new level of commitment! There can be NO more Excuses!! I invite you to join me on this journey to better balance in my BSS, and ask that you hold me accountable!! I know God loves me, because He gave me an added measure of support in my Beloved, and I am in gratitude for new seasons!! I am excited to walk in the Peace of Surrender, and look forward to the challenge of Laying down my will so His can be done!! To God be the Glory!!

Wisemen STILL Seek Him!!

2011-12-12T14:15:00.001-07:00

Do you consider yourself to be wise? How would we know? Long ago, wise men were identified by their elaborate clothing/tunics, their abundant provisions, and their purposeful decisions. What, then, sets us apart today as Wise?

2 years ago, I posted some thoughts on "where your treasure is, there your heart will also be" and challenged us to be found as the Wise Men of old - Seeking, Worshipping, and Giving! As I now, revisit this idea that Wise Men Still Seek Him, I wonder - Do they?

When you consider the word "wise", who do you envision? I think of my Grandfather, and Pastors - men, who walk with Godly Character. I also connect wisdom to my husband, who faithfully seeks to lead our family according to the Word/Will of God! I think of Donald Trump and Bill Gates - men who have achieved great financial abundance; and I also consider women like Joyce Meyers and Marilyn Hickey whose passion for a God-Honoring life has positioned them among those of influence. A common characteristic among these and the countless other "Wise" people, is Purpose!! As an adjective, "Wise" is defined as follows: having or showing experience, knowledge, and good judgement. Wisdom, then is the quality or state of Being wise!

Likewise, let's also consider again what it means to "seek". The Greek define "seek" as pursuing a continued direction with determination. "Seek", then, is a verb - it requires action! Based on this information, it stands to reason that we would then desire to Be Wise in our Seeking!! Let's get real now, and identify who or what are we seeking? Are we seeking validation from our peers? Are we seeking financial riches regardless of the costs? Are we seeking love? Are we seeking peace? Perhaps, more importantly, are we wisely seeking?

The more I come to know and understand the nature of God (his DNA), the easier I can identify His Divine ability and desire to meet ALL of my needs according to His riches in Glory! Therefore, it is Wise to "Seek First the Kingdom of God and HIS righteousness" knowing that "ALL these things shall be added to us!" - Matthew 6:33 NKJV This is Amazing news!! I love the simplicity and power of this promise!!!

What then sets us apart today as Wise? Based on this information, Wise Men and Women Still Seek Him - thee One who Loves first!! I invite you to join us this year as we PURPOSE to BE Wise in SEEKING Him First!!

Merry CHRISTmas!

Love, The Baker Bunch

The D.N.A. Domino Effect...

2011-12-08T19:39:00.001-07:00

"By this ALL will know that You are My Disciples,

if you have Love for One Another!"

- John 13:35 NKJV

This is a new season, and we are being called to Rise Up as Disciples N' Action (D.N.A.)!! As we consider the enormity of this invitation, we are reminded that being a Disciple begins by being One Another minded! I challenge you to join me in considering the domino effect your choices have. What impact are you making in your world? How are your relationships a reflection of your heart, your attitude and time? Do you like what you see? The D.N.A. Domino Effect is very much like The Law of the Harvest...you will reap what you sow. If you want more joy in your life, BE joyful! If you want more love, BE Loving! If you want more grace, BE Graceful and Forgiving! If you want more Peace, BE a Peacemaker!! I know that when I actually consider the Domino Effect of my words, attitude and actions, I am Much more Purposeful!! We serve a loving God who's very DNA enables new beginnings, second chances, restoration and healing!! Let us purpose today to enter this Christmas Season with a heart of thanksgiving and praise as we Purposefully choose Plan BE!!

Normal is NOT Enough...

2011-11-28T10:55:00.001-07:00

"go and make disciples..."

- Matthew 28:19 NKJV

"Are you ready? Ready for total surrender and complete availability to God? Standing up against the devil has to start with laying down our will to God's." (excerpt from the ATF Leader's Pre-Event Curriculum)

This weekend, Jeff and I get to take 25 youth to Acquire the Fire, to consider these very things!! I am SO excited!! Not only do we get to spend time with Amazing Youth and Leaders, we also get to be filled with Powerful, Challenging Teaching Word, and Uplifting, Loud Music (fav)!! As we prepare for this action-packed 30 hours; we have been praying for wisdom and understanding; revelation and knowledge; and an Encounter with God that would be FULL of Unforgettable Power!
We are passionate about raising up youth that are filled with abundant life and an ability to lead others in love. I am confident that one of the first steps in the process requires total surrender to God. Does this mean that we give up our ability to reason or choose? NO! The act of surrender is merely an act of faith, honor, humility, and love. It means we obey even when we don't understand. It looks like considering the promptings of the Holy Spirit before our own thoughts or feelings. Surrender requires us to line up our choices to the Word of God. This can sometimes be a one time decision - remaining sober or celibate (before marriage), etc. OR it can be a moment by moment choice - responding in love and forgiveness rather than reacting in anger...either way will require a great amount of commitment and awareness! Surrender is a verb, and invites us to actively align our will to that of Father God. This seems to be a lifelong pursuit...one that bears good fruit along the way!! Once you understand and commit to total surrender, you must consider your availability to God. Do you "seek first His kingdom and righteousness"? These choices are NOT for the weak!
Have you ever noticed how taking a Stand for Something can be followed by great opposition? The Adversary is not interested in the Norm, the lazy, the lukewarm Christians who are more interested in how they look than how they relate. These many are easy for "him"...they are no threat! BUT, the few who choose to follow hard after God put the Adversary on alert!! If "he" can distract, confuse or manipulate us; "he" can kill, steal, and destroy us. When, however, we choose to Stand Up and be counted; we invite ALL of heaven to move with us, and We are no match for the devil..."he" is a defeated foe!!!
The Bible is FULL of stories where One took a stand, and His-Story was forever changed!! David, Joseph, Esther, Mary (the mother of Jesus) - just to name a few. Notice that in many cases, God choose the Youth to Be the Change in the World...not just their bedroom, school, team or community; but the World!!! YOU are just as they!! Chosen for "such a time as this", armed for battle, equipped for greatness, and certainly NOT the Norm!!!
It is time, our moment is Now!! This is a New Season and therefore, a New Opportunity to Rise Up and Be Counted!! I Challenge you to join us as we dig deeper into God's plans for our lives, knowing they are good - that we Will prosper and succeed!! Rise Up and Be Counted as a Disciple N' Action - God's very D.N.A.!!

A Plentiful Harvest...

2011-11-22T14:16:00.001-07:00

Then He said to His Disciples,

"The Harvest truly is Plentiful, but the laborers are few.

Therefore, pray the Lord of the harvest to send out laborers into His harvest."

- Matthew 9:37-38 NKJV

Wikipedia describes Harvest as follows: "the process of gathering mature crops from the fields. The harvest marks the end of the growing season, or growing cycle for a particular crop. On smaller farms with minimal mechanization, harvesting is the most labor-intensive activity of the growing season."

Although I have yet to know the privilege of Agriculture Life, based on the last sentence of Wikipedia's definition, my imagination visualizes something similar to the photo above (courtesy of Google Images). I read a lot of Historical Fiction which generally is based in an Agriculture Era; where the lifestyle was centered around seasons, and families intimately knew the process of labor-intensive sowing and reaping.

Sowing - Courtesy of Google Images

How does this process relate to our Information Age Lifestyle? What does it mean to sow? Let's be clear it has nothing to do with fabric and thread. "Sowing is the process of planting seeds." Does this only apply to corn, grain, herbs, etc.? The bible is full of reverences to the process of sowing; and in 2 Corinthians 9:6-7, we are reminded that "he who sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and he who sows bountifully will also reap bountifully." I wonder then, what am I sowing? Last year, I wrote a blog titled, A New Season which left me with a renewed sense of purpose and accountability about this important season. I was also reminded of the vital next step which is to wait. It takes time for seeds to grow, amen? This is where we learn to practice patience...yeah! Have you ever picked a piece of fruit too soon? In my experience, unripened fruit is usually inedible, sour, and upsetting to my stomach. So it is with us, if we are sowing seeds of love, expecting to harvest love, and we grow impatient; not only will we destroy that which we've planted, but the harvest will be minimal and less than expected. If, however, you practice patience, then it is right to expect a plentiful harvest!!

Reaping - Courtesy of Google Images

I have been able to apply this principle of sowing and reaping to many areas of my life. For example, we choose to tithe 10%, knowing that in Malachi 3:10 we are promised that as we do, "the Lord of hosts will open the windows of heaven and pour out such a blessing, that there will not be room enough to receive it." Likewise, in my relationship with my Sweetheart, when I am feeling unnoticed, unappreciated, unloved, unworthy (etc.); if I focus on sowing seeds of love, appreciation, attention, and value into Him, I can expect a bountiful harvest. This is one application I wish I had learned earlier in our 22 years of marriage. I spent too much time sowing seeds of bitterness, judgement, and disrespect all the while complaining about the above listed feelings. I am also very aware of this principal as it applies to my body. If I choose to consume sugar-filled foods, french fries, and soda (just to name a few); I can expect to harvest weight, diabetes, and fatigue. If, however, I choose to consume clean sources of protein, veggies, and water; I will harvest health and vitality.

A Plentiful Harvest - Courtesy of Google Images

So, now that we better understand the process of sowing and reaping, I am redirected to Matt: 9:37-38. We have spent many years in ministry, both as volunteers and paid staff, however, it wasn't until Very recently that I began to meditate on this particular verse more fervently. Likewise, we have spent many years growing in our walk with God, and gaining wisdom and understanding about His nature and His word. A few years ago, we applied for a full-time position as the directors of children's ministry at a newly opened satellite campus of our church. During the application process, we were able to see how the Law of the Harvest applies to our talents and spiritual gifts as well. Our Pastor, in his wisdom, noticed that although we were filled with passion and some experience, we still had more growing to do in order to really be used to our full potential. He also reminded us that if we tried to harvest too soon, our fruit would be weak and probably end in overwhelm. At the time, we felt ready to serve in this full-time capacity, and SO desired to meet the call for laborers...we believed that we were ready. Thankfully, our Pastor's wise counsel gave us a moment to pause and continue growing. There is a known saying, "You can't give what you don't have", which we can apply to this principal. As the Lord raises us up for Harvest, we get to trust Him as the Master Gardener and wait for our due season. So, although we were a bit disappointed, we moved forward in faith that God would accomplish in us that which He began; and we continued to feel called to full-time Pastoral Ministry. As we proceeded in faith, we continued to seek knowledge, truth, wisdom, and understanding; and simultaneously, we gained valuable experience in many areas of ministry. So it is then, when a position for Full-time Youth Pastors presented itself recently, we were able to prayerfully ask if we were ready to harvest. With great favor, and anticipation, we are excited to enter into this new season!! Our heart's desire is to not only hear the call to labor, but to respond with preparation and passion! We know that building a Strong and Successful Youth Ministry requires continued sowing, and we also look forward with great anticipation to the joy of reaping!!

This year, we have MUCH to be Thankful for!! I continue to be in gratitude for a loving and grace-filled Father in Heaven! I am equally grateful for the loving sacrifice of a Savior that I might be in relationship with them! I am grateful for the spiritual gifts and talents that have been instilled in me and the opportunities I have to continue to grow and develop them! I am grateful for a loving husband that honors me in His relationship with our Father God! I am grateful to be a Mother, and to be blessed with four Amazing, Gifted, and Healthy children! I am grateful to be called and equipped to serve alongside my Sweetheart in this season of my life! May we each be filled with renewed peace as we relish in whatever season we find ourselves in, and may we enjoy the journey as we faithfully expect the promise of A Plentiful Harvest!!

Happy Thanksgiving from my heart to yours!!

A MASTERPIECE...

2011-10-28T11:23:00.003-07:00

"For we are God's Masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus,

so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago."

- Ephesians 2:10 NLT

As we enter this Season of Harvest and Thanksgiving, I invite you to pause with me and consider Yourself as God's Masterpiece.

Courtesy of Bethany House Publisher, I received a copy of my Favorite Author's latest novel, the first in her new series set at The Belmont Mansion in Nashville, Tennessee. Tamera Alexander continues to challenge and inspire me through her historically rich, romantic fiction novels, and A Lasting Impression is no exception! In this post Civil War era, we are introduced to "a nation mending, the redemption of those wounded, and the courage of a man and woman to see themselves-and each other-for who they truly are."

This eloquently written story reminds me of God's Grace, His ability to Forgive and Restore, and His desire to lead us into Second Chances - FULL of Abundant Blessings! I wonder, how many times do we resist this progression in order to question our worthiness? How often do we get stuck in our "doing for others" that we forget whom we owe ALL of our ability and opportunity too?

I LOVE to meditate on what it means to "be God's Masterpiece...created to do good things He has planned for us long ago". I am not an artist, but as I connect with Claire Laurent's passion to create, I become aware of the emotion and delicacy involved in the process. I can imagine each brush stroke taken to design and blend the variety of colors into one beautiful masterpiece, and feel humbled considering God's love for me!! I begin to see the Joy of the Lord as He painfully placed His signature on our hearts, and treasure the thought of being considered priceless!!

"A Lasting Impression" is Rich with sweet lessons of faith, forgiveness, courage, honor, restoration, trust, and love!! I am blessed by the opportunity Tamera Alexander's writing gives me to not only enjoy a good story, gain some historical insights, but also to reflect and respond to my own heart condition! In this moment, I am left with the challenge of considering the "Why" behind my actions, and equally important, the Lasting Impression I am creating. May we be filled with Wisdom and Understanding as we continue to press forward in faith, and may you be blessed as God's Masterpiece!!!

2011-10-26T09:59:00.000-07:00

The Ultimate Blog Bash 2011

Today I am Joyfully Linking Up with other Bloggers at Women Living Well to introduce myself and get to know others better. My name is Nanette, and I am SO grateful to be a Daughter of God, a Wife in Love, and a Mother on Purpose! I Love to sing and truly believe that life is one long musical. I enjoy sharing my heart and home as I daily learn what is means to "Dance in the Rain".

I began blogging as a way to record my thoughts and experiences, and quickly realized the power of connecting with other like-minded women as we Inspire and Encourage one another. I write with a heart to be transparent while glorifying God in all that He does in me and through me!! I am passionate about growing my relationship with Him, and delight in the process of Pursuing Peace on Purpose...HA! Likewise, my blog is full of examples of God's Grace! I continue to marvel in the opportunity to regularly pause and consider my "Heart Condition" - to align (more accurately re-align) with Wisdom and Understanding, and reflect on valuable life lessons I learn as I strive to be a Woman of Godly Character, a Helpmate to my Beloved, and a Grace-filled Mother! Please join me in this journey...I pray you find peace in knowing you are Not alone! Likewise, I look forward in faith with great expectation to ALL that God has for us we strive to BE Relevant!!

2011-10-24T11:42:00.001-07:00

Join me At the Well as we Replenish our Souls!!

Live With A Thankful Heart

2011-10-15T14:04:00.001-07:00

"And let the Peace of God rule in your hearts, and Be Thankful."

- Colossians 3:15 (Paraphrased by Nanette)

I LOVE this time of year!! It is a season of harvest, celebration, and generally filled with joy. As I enter a new season, I cherish the time to reflect and consider my "Heart Condition". Recently, I have felt the gentle promptings of the Holy Spirit challenging me to consider what it means to have a Thankful Heart, and how this leads to joy. I have spent a large portion of my life relating to "Being Content" as a passive decision I had to make. What I have noticed is that, as a result of this limited perspective, I have spent most of my life Enduring rather than Enjoying.

This week, a fellow blogger, and new friend, Grace Full Mama wrote a post on Battling Discontent with Thankfulness. This So touched my heart as a key to breaking through the cycle of Enduring!! Joy (Grace Full Mama) records, "The one thing I have learned is that it is extremely difficult to be discontent when I am actively thankful." As I continue to ponder the nature of my Heavenly Father; believing that God is Good - ALL the time, and wants nothing less for us than to walk in Joy, Peace, Grace, and Love; I am left with only one emotion...Thankfulness!! It is in this place of thankfulness that I find Peace, Joy, Grace, and Love!!

So it is with renewed Intention and Purpose that I boldly step in this new Season with a Thankful Heart!! I invite you to join me in one of favorite traditions - GRATITUESDAY!! Each Tuesday, I take time to post things I am grateful for on Facebook. This is a fun way for me to pause and consider the little things that make big differences. It is also a quick opportunity to align my Thankful Heart and recognize ALL that I have to be in gratitude of. Many times I list things like Toilet Paper and Double Stuffed Vanilla Oreos, which then leads me to consider things like Healthy Kids with Happy Hearts and Quiet Moments with My Sweetheart.

It is my prayer and challenge that throughout this Season, we will choose to Live With A Thankful Heart!

One Call Away - A Memoir by Brenda Warner

2011-10-09T14:30:00.000-07:00

"Answering Life's Challenges with Unshakable Faith"

Do you sometimes find yourself feeling alone and discouraged with your current circumstances? Are you stuck in a rut full of distractions? Do you hesitate to answer the phone, for fear of who might be on the other end with bad news? Brenda Warner shares her life and her heart in "One Call Away" as she considered similar questions. In this intimate glimpse, Brenda allows us to connect with her and her journey...a path that led her through Life's Challenges with Unshakable Faith!!

Book Description

Brenda’s life has taken twists and turns that are stranger than fiction. It always seemed as if she was just one phone call away from the next explosive change. Each time her plans fell apart, she had a choice: would she give up, or would she press forward and learn from the unexpected? One Call Away is the inspiring story of a woman who has prevailed through many of the circumstances that discourage women: tragedy, poverty, betrayal, and humiliation. But unlike most women, her life has been on display in the media.

Brenda’s faith and God’s strength enable her to face challenge after challenge: an accident that leaves her son blind and brain damaged, a crumbling marriage, a tornado that kills her parents, a new relationship with promising football player Kurt Warner, and the pressures his sudden success brings to their growing family.

Through food stamps and funerals, Super Bowls and serving others, Brenda’s strength is unwavering. Her determination to dream new dreams, willingness to learn from her mistakes, and commitment to giving back to her community make her a role model for women of all backgrounds.

Her dreams haven’t materialized as she had imagined, but Brenda has found that God has a much bigger plan for her. Conversational and candid, One Call Away invites readers facing their own difficulties to trust God and discover hope in the future.

I thoroughly enjoyed spending time reading about this Amazing, Inspiring woman!! I could SO relate to many of her experiences, responses, and choices to move forward on purpose! I appreciate her willingness and ability to be vulnerable as she brings Glory to God in All that He has done in her and through her!! This is a woman of action, and her memoir inspires me to do the same. Her and her family continue to do powerful, abundant work through "First Things First Foundation" as they put action to their testimony! I love her heart for children, and honor her for her sensitivity to celebrating the joy that they are!! I am encouraged by her faith as she pressed forward regardless of her circumstances! As I review my complementary ebook from Booksneeze, I am in gratitude for this woman who chooses to honor God in such an outloud and profound way! I highly recommend this book for anyone asking the above questions, as well as those looking for inspiration and motivation to carry on!! Like Brenda, it has been my experience that no matter where we are in our journey, God is only One Call Away. Knowing that gives me hope for tomorrow, faith for the future, and an ability to find joy in the journey!!

His Steadfast Love by Gloden Keys Parsons

2011-10-06T23:00:00.002-07:00

CAPTIVATING!!!

Thank You, Booksneeze for the opportunity to preview this complementary ebook - it has truly been my pleasure! I Highly recommend this incredible story for those desiring an adventure into the Civil War era...

This well-written, heartfelt story captivated my heart and my time! I was moved by the vastness of God's grace as reflected through such vivid characters and settings! I was awakened to a time where courage and freedom became powerful motivations; a time where reality seemed unreal, and faith, hope, and forgiveness became lifelines to a better tomorrow. I was grateful for the power of Love and Godly Character to heal deep wounds and restore families! I am encouraged by the Happily Ever After of such Steadfast Love!!

May we also embrace the Grace of forgiveness and choose to walk a life of Peace and Love for others!!

Storm Warning by Billy Graham

2011-10-05T22:01:00.000-07:00

I received this book free, courtesy of Booksneeze several months ago, and have taken my time reading it! For those of you interested in the "Signs of the Times", this book sheds some light and wisdom on this ever captivating topic!!

Book Description:

An examination of the imminence of Christ's return in light of today's headlines and the events recorded in Scripture.

The morning newspapers are jammed with alarming headlines and stories asking questions no one can answer. In Storm Warning, Billy Graham examines the problems facing America today compared with what is to come as revealed in the Bible. He answers the tough questions as only he can with astute biblical insight, and points to the hope and renewal found in Christ—for our families, our nation, and our world.

Includes an in-depth analysis of the four horsemen of Revelation chapter six as well as insight on:

Signs of the times The Apocalypse Standing before God

It is my belief that God is Graceful and Loving, and ALWAYS makes a way where there seems to be noway; and to that extent, I am happy to rest in the Calm of the Storm!!

Running the Race...

2011-10-05T11:48:00.000-07:00

"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son,
that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life."

- John 3:16

Are you weary in Running YOUR Race? Are there days when you feel overwhelmed and unable? Be encouraged today, knowing that you are Never alone!!

There have been times in my life when I have forgotten the promise that "I can do ALL things through Christ who gives me Strength"!! I have tried to DO my life as if I was on my own, and it was in these moments that I have felt overwhelmed and unable. It is also in these moments that I have made poor decisions - never my finest moments!! It has only been by the Grace of God that I "Run and Not grow weary, Walk and Not faint"!! It is also through this Grace that I find strength, wisdom, and ability to BE about my Father's business!!

So, today as you consider your journey; may you run with the ease of being carried by the One who loves you most, and Rest in His loving, gracious, and very capable arms!!

On Faith and Forgiveness...

2011-06-10T14:25:00.000-07:00

"Hatred stirreth up strifes: but love covereth all sins."

- Proverbs 10:12

Have you ever wished you could leave your past behind you? I have!! At the same time, have you ever pondered, in gratitude, the lessons learned ONLY having walked your past?

It has been some time since my last post, as life's journey has seemed to explode! Miraculous opportunities have opened (and closed) over the months, and I continue to walk in gratitude for God's provision, grace, and love!! As I again pause to record a moment in time, I am quickly reminded of just how abundant life is!

I have long been a fan of Historical Fiction novels, particularly with a Christian theme; thus I was delighted when Bethany House Publisher gifted me an opportunity to review one of their titles!! I received a free copy of "to Win Her HEART" by Karen Witemeyer and eagerly dove in!! Karen Witemeyer had already been added to my growing list of treasured authors for her ability to create deep emotions in me as I journeyed into her stories, and this novel was no different!!

As I have shared my journey, I have shared my struggle with accepting and offering forgiveness. I have recorded numerous examples of God's grace and mercy as He gently reminded me of my worth as His daughter. Needless to say, I felt immediately connected with the story line of "to Win Her HEART" as I reviewed the following synopsis:

A blacksmith with a criminal past. A librarian with pacifist ideals. Do they have a fighting chance at finding love?

Having completed his sentence for the unintentional crime that derailed his youthful plans for fame and fortune, Levi Grant looks to start over in the town of Spencer, Texas. Spencer needs a blacksmith, a trade he learned at his father’s knee, and he needs a place where no one knows his past. But small towns leave little room for secrets. . . .

Eden Spencer has sworn off men, choosing instead to devote her time to the lending library she runs. When a mountain-sized stranger walks through her door and asks to borrow a book, she steels herself against the attraction he provokes. His halting speech and hesitant manner leave her doubting his intelligence. Yet as the mysteries of the town’s new blacksmith unfold, Eden discovers hidden depths in him that tempt her heart.

Levi’s renewed commitment to his faith leads Eden to believe she’s finally found a man of honor and integrity, a man worthy of her love. But when the truth about his prodigal past comes to light, can this tarnished hero find a way to win back the librarian’s affections?

I immediately fell in love with the characters, as they struggled with the challenge of putting their pasts behind them. I was moved by the evidence of God's grace to restore, as I have come to intimately know His faithfulness . I delighted in Ms. Witemeyer's ability to include my emotions in that of the character's as she vividly guided me into an era of honor and faith. I could relate to the discomfort of walking in love over judgement, and celebrated in the victory over the flesh!

"to Win Her HEART" immediately captured mine, as I found myself taking every opportunity to "curl up" with Eden and Levi's adventures into Love. Karen Witemeyer has once again created a "Happily Ever After" that left me feeling uplifted, encouraged, and loved! I HIGHLY recommend you spend quality time walking through the pages of this inspiring novel as you consider your own Faith and Forgiveness! Perhaps it is time to Rejoice in the Sweetness of Second Chances!!!

A New Season...

2010-10-14T08:54:00.000-07:00

"To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under heaven"

-Ecclesiastes 3:1

I just LOVE this time of year...Summer turns into Autumn, the weather begins to cool, and cherished time outside becomes our daily goal!! I am equally grateful for the reminder that Everything has a season and purpose!!

Recently, our family began a new season as well!! It is a time of reflecting and acknowledging the great things God has done in us and is doing through us! As I study the Law of the Harvest, I am beginning to understand the connection between reaping and expectation. A wise farmer knows that just planting a seed alone is not enough. He must nurture the seed and then patiently expect it to grow after it's own kind - wheat seeds produce wheat, corn seeds produce corn; wheat seeds will never produce corn! So it is with us, we plant seeds of love, forgiveness, favor, etc. and then we get to patiently expect them to grow and produce a bountiful harvest!! Likewise, if we are sowing seeds of worry, discouragement, and fear we will only produce a bountiful harvest of yuck!

There are many lessons we can apply from this reminder, however, the two major thoughts I'm pondering is:

What kind of seeds am I sowing?
Do I really expect a harvest?

Once we get our hearts around the truth of the Law of the Harvest - that we Do reap what we sow; we can begin to be aware of what we're sowing, nurturing, and expecting to produce? We can also become aware of our ability to walk in faithful expectation. Part of the process is a season of waiting, knowing it takes time for something to grow and produce. I wonder if in our "Fast Food Mentality" we've forgotten how to patiently wait for something? Have we missed out on a harvest because we walked away discouraged that our expected result was not happening fast enough?

I know the pain of reaping a harvest of judgement, lack, and selfishness. I also know the joy of reaping a harvest of love, forgiveness, and joy!! I am grateful for the master gardener who lovingly nurtures me, faithfully expecting a bountiful harvest!! Likewise I am grateful for a new perspective and opportunity to see our children through His eyes and trust that the seeds of Love, Trust, Encouragement, and Joy I sow today will not return void!

I invite you to join me in considering how the Law of the Harvest is showing up in your life. Are you reaping what you desire? If not, begin sowing new seeds today!! I testify to you that God willingly extends mercy, grace, forgiveness and great love! I firmly believe that it is Never too late to change our crop!! Likewise, be encouraged you as you faithfully expect a harvest knowing that God is faithful! May we be a people on Purpose, sowing seeds with Intention, and always walking in great expectation for the good things of God!!

ILUMN8

2010-08-18T22:42:00.000-07:00

"Let my light so shine before men, that they will see my good works, and glorify my Father in Heaven!"

- Matt 5:16 Confession

As I began to consider a theme for this season of "Sunshine Singers", God almost immediately laid on my heart "ILLUMINATE". How awesome to spend time really considering the Legacy I'm Leaving, the Path I'm Paving, and the Choices I'm Making! I invite you to join us as we embrace this new season, and consider what are you doing to ILUMN8?

Abundant Blessings,

Nanette

HONOR

2010-07-20T09:14:00.001-07:00

Honor is defined as a mark, token, or gesture of respect or distinction.

Today, I am honored to have been set apart by one of my dear friends. Ramblings of a TJEd Mother has listed me as one of her favorite blogs to read!! To God be the glory!! I blog as a way to reflect, and illuminate. It is my desire to share how God is moving through me, and to express my joy of the journey! What I've noticed is the abundance of encouragement we share with each other!! I am blessed by Ranee's example of being Other's Minded, truly a woman of honor!

By request, I am happy to share 7 things about me...

I LOVE music!! I Love to sing and play piano!! I Love to train up others in the art of music!! I would love to write music!
I have been married for more than half of my life to an AMAZING man of valor and my very best friend!
After years of practice, I make a mean Baked Ziti pasta dish (including sauce from scratch, of course!)
Tamara Alexander and Janette Oke are two of my favorite authors.
I Love French Fries!!
I am passionate about Leadership Education, and enjoy a life based on the principles of "A Thomas Jefferson Education"!
I LOVE Living Word Bible Church!! I am SO blessed by the outpouring of wisdom and understanding, along with the shared desire to glorify God in all things!!

Now then, I'd like to honor a few of the blogs I follow that uplift, inspire, and encourage me!! I know you'll be blessed by them also!!

Authors, I'd love for you to respond to honor by passing it along! Step 1: Gratitude, thank the person who honored you. Step 2: Share, write 7 things about you. Step 3: Honor, pass this along to some of the blogs you follow.

Thank you all for being a part of my journey!! I am blessed by your stories, examples, and wisdom from it all!! May we continue to walk in Honor as we Rise Up For Such a Time as This!!

This Is The Day!!

2010-07-16T06:00:00.022-07:00

"THIS is the Day, the Lord Has Made.

I WILL Rejoice and Be Glad in it!!!

I hope you are filled with Joy as you "Choose this day whom you will serve"!! "As for me and my house, we Will serve the Lord"!!!

Grace!!!

2010-07-09T06:00:00.003-07:00

"Count it ALL Joy!!!"

James 1:2-3

Today, I am SO grateful for the lessons I've learned - especially those I've learned the hard way!! I choose to believe that God works ALL things together for good for those who love Him, and I continue to experience His grace and mercy in ALL I do!! I KNOW that God forgives and restores!! I have learned to trust Him as I continue to step forward with courage!! To God be the Glory for ALL that He does and May Our Light So Shine!!

Happy Birthday, Son!!!

2010-07-01T09:07:00.000-07:00

I am SO grateful to Celebrate my Son today!! 8 years ago, the testosterone level Finally increased in our home!! Tony came equipped with so MANY gifts and talents!! He is FULL of Joy, incredibly Strong, very Athletic, amazingly Musical, and abundantly Loving just to name a few! I am blessed to be the Mother of such a powerful young leader, and delight in him daily!!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, SON!!!

Happy Father's Day!!

2010-06-20T07:00:00.000-07:00

Happy Father's Day, Men of Valor!!!

I am SO blessed to have a Godly Father!! I am grateful for a Dad that sees me through Godly eyes, and loves me with a Godly heart!!

I am equally grateful to love a man that chooses to be a Godly Father to our children!!

I am also grateful for numerous Godly men that have spoken and continue to speak powerfully into my life!!

May you continue to be blessed as you lead our families as God has equipped you!

All My Love and Gratitude!!

Take Off Your Shoes and Show Me Your Soul...

2010-06-09T00:14:00.001-07:00

"Do not draw near this place. Take your sandals off your feet, for the place where you stand is holy ground."

- Exodus 3:5

Recently, I decided to pause and consider the life and legacy of Moses; and to my delight, I am learning MUCH about my life and the legacy I choose to leave.

One moment that has had a profound effect on me is Moses' encounter with God in a burning bush. First of all, I can totally imagine Moses' surprise and wonder as he happens upon a burning bush while going about his business. I can recall several times in my life when I too, have been so focused on "MY" business that God has had to intervene in a magnificent way in order to get my attention (how loving and willing He is to do just that if need be!!!). Secondly, I consider God's intent to share His vision for Moses, yet before He outlines His plan, He instructs Moses to remove his sandals. Now, one could easily argue the significance of removing his sandals as a sign of respect for God. One could even suggest that the necessity for Moses to remove his sandals was to maximize his ability to connect with and draw on the power of God's presence. I would agree with both of these thoughts, however, let's consider another.

Why do we where shoes? To protect our feet as we walk through life. Is it safe to suggest then, that our shoes could represent our past, and all that we've journeyed through? Likewise, why does God refer to the spot where Moses stood as Holy Ground? Webster defines Holy as "exalted or worthy of complete devotion as one perfect in goodness and righteousness". Not only was Moses standing before the most Holy God, he was about to receive a word of knowledge that would be worthy of complete devotion. Therefore, let us also consider that God requested Moses remove his sandals as a means of letting go of his past so he could most effectively move into his future.

Several years ago, I encountered a "burning bush" moment in my life. An opportunity to let go of my past and move forward into ALL that God had for me. Perhaps had I considered this lesson sooner, the process of letting go might have been as easy as removing a pair of sandals. I, however, chose the longer more painful journey - more like the people of Egypt. In all of this internal battle to let go, I have noticed that as I surrender my will to God's, I find my heart and soul. This exposure enables an open and teachable heart - isn't that all God asks and desires of us? How faithful God is to fill us with His love, peace and joy as we choose to be vulnerable. Not once does God say this process would be easy, however, He does promise it will be worth it!! I am beginning to notice just how true this promise is. I am also clear that in many ways, this process is a journey, not a destination. I am also beginning to notice that the longer I choose to walk by faith, the more comfortable I am on Holy Ground.

I am confident that God's plan and vision for our life is worthy of complete devotion! I am grateful for God's invitation to Take Off Our Shoes and Show Him Our Souls!! I encourage you to join me in this walk with bare feet and open hearts. May we be like Moses as we let go of the past (including all fear and doubt) and enter into a life of walking by faith, I pray in Jesus' Name, Amen!!

And Her Children Shall Rise Up and Call Her Blessed...

2010-05-09T22:13:00.000-07:00

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!

I am SO blessed to be a mother!! I cherish this season of growing and learning together with my amazing children!! It is my deep desire to leave a legacy of love that will bring honor to God and my mother! So, remember to tell that one, You Are Loved!!!

For Such A Time As This...

2010-04-09T08:02:00.000-07:00

"For if you remain completely silent at this time, relief and deliverance will arise from another place...Yet who knows whether you have come to the kingdom for such a time as this?"
- Esther 4:14 (paraphrase)

Have you ever wondered how and even when your "mission" would be made clear? Have you found yourself at war with reality, running here and there feeling like a chicken with her head cut off? I'm open to the possibility that these questions only apply to me, however, it is my experience that I am not alone in my search for purpose and a mission driven life.

Jeff, my darling husband and I have been seeking God on this very subject - desiring to be about His business. We had begun to understand the necessity of "surrendering ALL" of our thoughts and plans in order to truly see God's direction and purpose for our lives. This process of surrender has not been easy, nor is it over; I have, however, begun to identify areas of letting go that I can choose in addition to the areas chosen for me. This matter of laying down my will and allowing God's will for me I imagine is similar to that which Jesus underwent in the Garden of Gethsemane when he plead, "Not my will, but thine be done". I am confident that ultimate peace and life more abundant is found when we can consistently align our will to our Heavenly Father.

So, here I am seeking God, believing for opportunities to be a blessing; all the while limiting the big picture to only what I could imagine. It was in this place, that Jeff reminded me of the possibility of expanding my vision to encompass more. What a concept! In "The Prayer of Jabez" he asks God to "enlarge his territory". I began pondering what it means to enlarge my territory. After surrendering my initial thoughts and beliefs, what I've learned is that God's desire is to increase us, bless us! Enlarging our territory is NOT a process of taking on more things to do, becoming unbalanced. It is, however, an opportunity to allow God and the Holy Spirit to move through us more freely and thereby giving us a greater capacity and opportunity to serve.

As I become aware of this opportunity, and choose to lay down my agendas, I notice numerous opportunities to encourage and uplift others. I also find joy in my journey - my children and husband become more of a delight to me. I've also been blessed with a place to mentor in Performing Arts - talents I am passionate about, however, wondered if this was a selfish desire.

This is where I see Heavenly Father's tender heart and great love!!! I have been training for nearly 30 years in the areas of piano and voice. I have had numerous opportunities to perform in various venues. This is a talent and skill that has so richly blessed my life, however, as a wife and mother, where do these skills apply. Well, I could justify sharing them with my children, and in various church assignments, but felt that much more would move me from sharing to selfish. As I've taken on the intention to surrender my will, Heavenly Father has shown me how talents are given for a reason. The things we are passionate about, He can use and wants to access for His glory. I finally began to receive permission to BE and express my gifts in a new way. The moment I considered God had a bigger vision for me, an opportunity opened immediately for me to play keyboard with a Contemporary Christian Worship Band, The Bridge Effect. Now this seemed WAY too cool for me, however, God said you can do it!! Shortly after I took on this assignment, I began feeling more confident in God's ability to maximize my passions, desires, and skills in fulfilling my mission. I've also learned that in the place of surrender, God's Favor begins flowing more freely, and Mission Moments (as I'm calling them) find us!!!

So, I'm out there sewing seeds of time and talent into The Bridge Effect, and very quickly, and opportunity shows up for me to take on mentoring adults and children in Performing Arts through an incredibly, well established local Dance Studio, Wagner Dance Arts!! This new assignment puts me in position to be Mission driven!! What an awesome place to be!! Now, this does not take away my mission as a wife, mother, and daughter of God. It simply adds to it, which creates a full, deep experience for me!!

Now, I'm not suggesting that in any way I've arrived. I'm simply recording the process of letting go, so I can receive....choosing to sift through the business to clearly identify my passions and desires, and then being willing to receive a larger context for my life! My heart is FULL of joy (like giddy delight) and peace in being about my business - God's Mission Moments for me!!! It is my prayer that like Esther, we too will choose to rise up in courage and wisdom to be about our Father's business; and then enjoy the blessings that comes when we step up For Such A Time As This!!

A Reason to Start Over New...

2010-04-02T15:09:00.002-07:00

I am SO blessed by the grace and mercy of our Savior, Jesus Christ!!! It is with a quiet heart that I reflect on the life and love of this One who gave his life that I might be free! How sweet it is!! It is my heart desire that this Easter Season be filled with the message of hope and joy knowing that He Lives and Loves! If you don't know Jesus as your Lord and Savior, I invite you to make this decision TODAY! Salvation is just one heart beat away, and I am FOREVER grateful for the decision I made many years ago!! "A Reason to start over new, and the Reason is You!!"

Blessings & Happy Easter,
Nanette

Our First Princess Turns 19!

2010-03-31T22:10:00.000-07:00

19 years ago today, my heart's desire was met when I became a mother to a Beautiful Baby Girl! Theresa immediately blessed our lives with beauty, joy, and hope. Little did I know just how much she would teach me. With a tender heart, I reflect on the past 19 years remembering amazing good times, and tragic hard times. I am SO grateful for the gifts Theresa has blessed me with: creativity, courage, clarity, order, and such a big sister's heart! I am SO pleased with the woman she has become. I love this song, Cinderella by Steven Curtis Chapman, and can SO relate today!

Theresa, we love you and cherish you as a part of our family! Happy Birthday!!

When Your Mess Becomes Your Message

2010-03-24T06:58:00.002-07:00

"And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose."
- Romans 8:28 (NKJV)

Recently, my friends at Proverbs 31 Ministries posted a blog with the title, When Your Mess Becomes Your Message. Micca focused on God's ability to heal us from addictions so that we can stand as a witness. It was moving, inspiring, and extremely touching. I am blessed to have avoided the struggle with drug and/or alcohol addictions; however, this title has stirred me to consider two important things:

What am I addicted to that pulls me away from God?
How awesome it is that my Father God has lovingly worked all things together for His good!

As you know, I strive to be transparent in sharing the lessons I have learned along the way, however, this process requires some trust. It is a vulnerable place to stand accountable before others in an attempt to glorify God, rather than validate behavior and choices. Jeff & I had the sweet opportunity to visit with some dear friends several weeks ago, and recount some of our amazing journey. As we began to share the choices we had made, and honestly the mess we had created, my heart softened again to the Savior, whom I believe made the ultimate sacrifice for me so that I could be redeemed from the very depths of the mess I had created. What an intimate example of love!

I can relate to the addict that has forgotten who they are as a child of the Most High. I can relate to the desperate woman bound by beliefs and behaviors that leave her feeling unworthy and worthless. I can relate to the rage of an unforgiving and burdened heart. I am certainly not proud of many decisions I have made over the past 20 years, however, I am very grateful for the gifts of grace, mercy, and forgiveness! I am even more grateful for the valuable perspective my mess has given me! Like David of old, it was through the very depths of my mess that I cried out and found a loving Heavenly Father that had never left me alone to fend for myself, but had already made provision for restoration. I found my Savior, Jesus Christ that selflessly paved the way for me. I found a depth of understanding that could not have come by any other means, and I found a love and peace that truly surpasses all understanding!

I know what it is to wake up in the middle of a mess and desperately want something more! I am grateful that my parents had instilled truths in me that quickly arose out of the mess of justification and rationalization to quickly point me to the only way out!! I am happy to share my journey in greater details, however, suffice it to say that I KNOW God loves us and desires to be in relationship with us; I KNOW that forgiveness is a process that brings life, love, and peace from either angle (needing forgiveness or offering it); I KNOW that healing and restoration comes when we are willing to let go!

I have learned many valuable lessons through my journey, and "Count it ALL Joy" to allow My Mess to Be My Message!! There is great power in sharing our journeys together as we uplift, encourage, and inspire one another onto the greatness instilled within us!

Thank you for blessing my life along the way! May you continue to be blessed as Your Mess Becomes Your Message!!!

Nanette

She Speaks

2010-03-23T15:52:00.000-07:00

"She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue."

- Proverbs 31:26

Proverbs 31 Ministries is hosting their annual "She Speaks" Conference in Concord, NC on July 30 - August 1, 2010. This inspiring conference is designed to support women in their passion to share the messages God has placed on our hearts. Accomplished leaders in the areas of She Speaks, She Writes, and She Leads will be on hand to encourage, inspire, and equip those that choose to make this a priority! I would LOVE to participate! It is SO my heart's desire to encourage and inspire women to live Life on Purpose and with Passion, trusting God in ALL things. I have entered a Scholarship Contest expecting favor as I counsel with those wise in this area of Spiritual gifting!!! I firmly believe that God desires us to Always Be Ready to share our faith, Speak with Wisdom, and follow the Spirit with Faithful Instruction on our tongue!!! I am excited to Make my Mess my Message and honor God by acknowledging His desire to bless us with Peace Among the Pieces!!!

Women of Proverbs 31 Ministries, THANK YOU for standing for excellence!! Thank you for offering such an amazing time of instruction and connection! May God continue to richly bless you as you continue to honor His Mighty Name!!

Blessings,

Nanette

Pruning Season

2010-03-19T11:49:00.001-07:00

"For afore the harvest, when the bud is perfect, and the sour grape is ripening in the flower, he shall both cut off the sprigs with pruning hooks and take away and cut down the branches"

Isaiah 18:5

Spring begins a season of pruning, where the objective is to produce strong, healthy, attractive plants. According to the United States Department of Agriculture's guide, How to Prune Trees there are several reasons for pruning: safety, health, aesthetics, stimulating fruit production, and increasing value. I suggest that much like plants and trees, we too need a pruning season.

Reasons for Pruning

Pruning for Safety involves removing branches that could fall and cause injury or property damage, trimming branches that interfere with lines of sight on streets or driveways, and removing branches that grow into utility lines. I believe that we too can Prune for Safety by removing distractions from our lives!! I would define a distraction as anything that changes our Heavenly focus to a Worldly perspective and gets in the way of our desires and dreams. What activities and relationships do we allow in our lives that create worry vs. peace, frustration vs. joy, discouragement vs. hope, bondage vs. freedom? Perhaps it is time to consider the cost vs. benefit in these areas. Let's be bold as we honestly evaluate the reality, and courageously Prune for Safety.

Pruning for Health involves removing diseased or insect-infested wood, thinning the crown to increase airflow and reduce some pest problems, and removing crossing and rubbing branches. Pruning can best be used to encourage trees to develop a strong structure and reduce the likelihood of damage during severe weather. Removing broken or damaged limbs encourages wound closure. What a great visual to apply in our lives. As we aspire to create solid foundations in our lives, ones that can weather any storm, we can see the value of Pruning for Health. I LOVE the value that is created when we remove broken or damaged limbs! I see wound closure as a Really good thing! I see this as a vital part of having a solid foundation! We know that in this life there will be storms, it is wisdom that allows us to pick up the pieces and find peace and healing to move forward! It is my experience that this is where forgiveness is vital. Trusting the Atonement of our Savior to cover the offended, the offense, AND the offender - such an act of love!

Pruning for Aesthetics involves enhancing the natural form and character of trees or stimulating flower production. How sweet to trust our Heavenly Father as the Master Gardener to enhance our nature as we develop Godly Character! What can we do to ensure healthy fruit production? Submit to the Pruning Process!!

The USDA further suggests, To reduce the need for pruning it is best to consider a tree's natural form. It is very difficult to impose an unnatural form on a tree without a commitment to constant maintenance. Just as vitally important it is for us then to understand and consider our nature as we prune. I visualize the process of pruning looking slightly different for everyone. A man will have different considerations than a woman, adults different than children. I think the greatest value of understanding this truth is that we enter a Season of Pruning with realistic expectation. I tend to be very motivated by my emotions meaning I get excited easily. This is great for getting me motivated, creating a plan, and following through until I achieve my desired result. Good news for me, it does not however mean that my plan will work for my husband or children. Inspiring a Season of Pruning for my family requires the heart of a Master Gardener. First of all, I'm learning to let my Heavenly Father Prune my husband...what a peaceful and loving concept. It is rarely my job to correct my sweetheart. I am learning that it is far more effective for me to encourage and uplift him rather than correct....a lesson learned the hard way over and over again. As for my children, it is a sweet thing to allow the Master Gardener to mentor me in the art of shaping and developing, and He is faithful to do so! The moment I remember that the Covenant Relationship with God and my Husband is available to assist me in Pruning and Shaping the lives of those entrusted to us, the moment I can Prune according to my children's specific Godly Character. This produces healthy fruit of more than one variety, rather than an orchard of exactness.

I am SO grateful for Pruning Season! I am grateful for the process of letting go, as I continue to Trust God to shape me into the Godly Woman He designed. I continue to practice the art of submission - laying down my agenda to that which serves the greatest good. It is my desire and prayer that by understanding how, why, and when to prune I will produce strong, healthy, and attractive fruit, Being Blessed to Be a Blessing!!

Happy Pruning!!

Peace Among the Pieces

2010-02-26T08:10:00.008-07:00

"The Lord will give strength unto his people;

the Lord will bless his people with peace."

- Psalm 29:11

What is this peace? The Hebrew, Shalom translates as safe, that is (figuratively) well, happy, friendly; also (abstractly) welfare, that is health, prosperity, peace: to be well wholly. Love it!

My thoughts today are drawn to the desire for peace. Psalm 34:14 counsels us to "seek peace, and pursue it!" Again, the Hebrew for pursue is Radaph - to run after, chase, or hunt. THIS I can relate to! I totally know what it is to pursue peace with a passion!! I am familiar with difficult situations and circumstances where fear bombards my thoughts and leaves me with the choice to seek hard after peace or to stay stuck in worry and doubt. We've known the pain of financial struggle - no income, bills to pay. Like many of you, we too have felt the sting of broken relationships, gossip, and betrayal. Recently, we have even come to know the heartache of a child being victimized in most unthinkable ways. We know that in this life, there Will Be pain and seasons of trial; so, where do we focus during these times? Where do we look for peace?

I heard a friend recently struggling to find security. She was looking to "man and the world" for a sense of knowing - a stable income, home ownership, roots. As she shared her desire and journey, I became aware of her Real search for peace. I have come to understand that often times when we seek security, we look to man for the solution, and forever seem unsatisfied. Conversely, when we seek peace and look to the One who promises an endless supply, our internal struggle with fear subsides. I am convinced that as long as we choose to dance with fear, doubt, and worry; we miss out on the opportunity to know peace, joy, and love!!

I am grateful for my relationship with a Heavenly Father that is the source of endless peace in ALL circumstances. I have heard the knock of our loving Savior who stands ready. I have considered the depth of the Atonement that covers not only the offense, the pain of being offended, as well as the offender! God knows the intent of the Adversary to "kill, steal, and destroy" and has so paved a way for us to follow!

I know that God moves among the pieces!! God stands ready and able to assist us in putting the pieces of life together peacefully! Choosing to Trust God has been one of the most difficult and rewarding decisions I make on a daily basis!! Looking to God as my source and security is an act of faith that ALWAYS brings peace!! Trusting that I am not alone in my journey to discern the pieces of life brings peace! Enjoying the Divinely appointed friendships in my life, brings peace and encouragement!

I also know that if I can find peace among my pieces, so can you! Trust God, look to him as the author and finisher of your faith! I pray that we will be encouraged in our journey to seek peace, and pursue it with renewed energy!

Blessings,

Nanette

A Season of Reflection and Preparation

2010-02-18T07:06:00.006-07:00

Yesterday was "Ash Wednesday", typically a Catholic tradition which begins a season of reflection called Lent; and, although I am not Catholic, I can relate to the value of reflecting on the life I'm leading and how it may or may not reflect the life of the Savior and draw me closer to Him. Traditionally, this time of Lent begins a 40 day journey, ending with the celebration of Easter. For many, this is a time of letting go of habits that distract us. Again, I know and understand the value of letting go of bad habits and distractions!! Often times, this is also a season of fasting, prayer, and study; a time to remember the life, death, and resurrection of our Savior. What a great idea!!! I've noticed in my life, the times when I've recognized a bad habit or distraction, the Only way to let go is by invoking the powers of heaven to assist me! I am grateful to know that God IS Faithful! I have also come to know Jesus as my Savior, Intercessor, and Friend. He is my best friend who knows Everything about me, and SO desires for me to succeed in Every area of my life! He is the one I am totally transparent with, who loves me in spite of myself! He is the one whom I can trust to always see me through the loving eyes of our Father. He knows my heart and He knows where my distractions are, He also knows an easier way!

I was thinking of my other Very Best Friend and Sweetheart, Jeff. We have been married now for more than half of my life. He knows me intimately, and often times can recognize things about me that I just don't see. He also loves me enough to be open and honest in his feedback. Now, for many years I resented this fact! I spent a lot of time hearing his loving support as critical judgments, Totally unfounded in truth. I found myself being defensive, defiant, disrespectful, disgusted, and eventually disloyal. What a dangerous road to choose!!! In my self-righteous pride, I had taken the love and support offered me and watered it down to the point of holding No value. On top of that, I found myself complaining that I didn't feel loved. I then decided to wallow in self-pity and even enrolled others to join me. I was quite the hostess at this incredible Pity Party!! I had spared no expense! I found myself feeling alone, empty, and hurting; when in reality, I was being offered abundant love and support. How had I gotten so confused? Why would I resist such an offer? It took me a Long time of reflecting and letting go to see this resistance as a distraction, one of the Adversary's greatest tactics. If Satan can get us distracted and believing the lies He tells, then He wins! The Scriptures are full of wise counsel to stay focused, and on purpose!! I am grateful for Love that corrects and forgives! I am grateful for the power of Grace, Mercy, and Redemption!!! I am grateful for new beginnings!! This time of year also happens during Spring, a time of new beginnings! A time when the earth wakes up, dusts itself off, and starts all over again! Isn't it exciting that we too have this opportunity? I invite you to spend this next 40 days reflecting. I encourage you to be willing to be open and honest about where you might be distracted. Where have you replaced love and support with food, medication, etc.? Where has your self-righteous pride interfered with relationships and blessings? I even dare you to consider your own relationship with Jesus Christ.

I can promise you that this journey, however uncomfortable it may be, will be worth it! I KNOW and have experienced the power of receiving the grace and mercy to let go, and redemption to to begin again! You can start fresh, with new wisdom, new habits, new choices. God wants to bless you with Peace, Joy, Prosperity, Health, Wisdom, Understanding, Forgiveness and Love. Let this be the year when you decide to break free from the distractions of this world and set your sights on the Savior!! Be ferocious in your quest for freedom! Be Unwavering in your faith! Be Bold in moving forward!! Be Open to receive ALL that you desire and deserve!! Be Courageous in seeking Salvation.

I believe that God has Great things in store for those that love and trust Him!! I know that We choose if will be our Best of Times or Worst of Times! Please don't be like me and waist precious time wallowing! I am passionate about the joy of letting go, and being on purpose!! I know God will do miraculous things with our willing hearts!! This season, I pray that we choose to "Let our Lifesong Sing"!!

Blessings,

Nanette

Happy Presidents Day

2010-02-15T22:28:00.002-07:00

Today, I am honored to remember George Washington and Abraham Lincoln as Men of Valor - Courageous and Faithful!!

How did you "celebrate" this day? Did you take time to reflect? Did you offer a prayer of gratitude for our freedom and rich heritage as Americans? Let us not miss such a moment and may we always be "One Nation Under God"!!

Celebrating 20 Years!!!

2010-02-14T11:24:00.004-07:00

Love is always bestowed as a gift freely, willingly, and without expectation. We don't love to be loved; we love to love.

Leo F. Buscaglia

20 years ago today, Jeff & I said I DO!! What an amazing journey it has been!! I am SO blessed by this covenant relationship!!! I am blessed for my testimony that God values this covenant for us and walks with us as we two become one!! I have experienced the joy of the Atonement in my marriage. I know the power of restoration that exists when we simply ask and willingly receive ALL that God has for us. I am SO blessed to share this amazing journey with my Best Friend, Lover, Protector, and Partner!!!

In the TJEd Trenches

2010-01-22T02:12:00.003-07:00

Welcome, to my TJEd friends! I hope that you will find encouragement as you visit here often. It is my desire to be a woman that leaves good bread crumbs for anyone following along the trail. We are a family that strives to inspire and lead wherever called. I have come to understand that being an inspiring leader is not an event, an obligation, or a final destination; it is a conscious awareness that I am not alone in my journey, being blessed to be a blessing, a legacy.

I hope that as you get to know me, you will find me to be an honest friend. You can count on me to be open and honest as I share the lessons I learn (many times the hard way). I aspire to be a friend that challenges your greatness, while being open to the same in return. May we find support and love as we move through life together.

Blessings,

Nanette

The beauty AFTER the storm - Breathtaking!

2010-01-20T11:10:00.003-07:00

Isn't it amazing how beautiful the world is after a storm? Here in Arizona, it rained most of yesterday. It was colder than normal, dismal, humid, and generally uncomfortable. Likewise, we were introduced to the reality of inheriting a older condo - leaking roof! So, we spent the day with buckets and towels catching water in about 7 places throughout our kitchen area. Today, however, I awoke to a clear blue sky, warm sunshine, lush green grass, and dry kitchen - Beautiful! How true it seems in life, the storms will come and with them generally there is an element of discomfort! Yet, just as true is it that storms will come, it is equally true that they Do pass; and oh, what beauty they bring! There is something that happens during a storm that purifies. I can recount numerous times throughout history that the storms came and went changing life as it had been known. So it is, then, that I am learning to be grateful for the storm - knowing that with a little patience and stretching, there will be a breathtaking outcome! Praise God for loving us enough to provide natural purifying opportunities! May we continue to learn to dance in the rain rather than just waiting for the storms to pass!

Tony's Impromptu Piano Recital

2010-01-13T22:14:00.003-07:00

I love the joy music brings to our home!! Tony is getting more and more comfortable with these keys which just makes me smile!!

Happy Holidays at Happy House!

2010-01-05T17:49:00.006-07:00

"Count it ALL Joy!!"

-James 1:2

We enjoyed such a Merry Christmas!!

It was SO good to celebrate together in the warmth of Arizona!!

It was fun to celebrate our favorite holiday traditions:

Baked Ziti (pasta) Christmas Eve dinner

Opening coordinating pajamas on Christmas Eve

Prime Rib Christmas Day Dinner

It was especially fun to add a new tradition:

Candlelight Service at church

Although this was not our most expensive Christmas, it was certainly one of our most connected!

As we spent time reflecting on 2009, we found MANY things to be grateful for!!

It has been a season of healing and preparation!

We look forward with great expectations for all that God has in store for us in 2010!!

Thank you for being a part of our journey! Blessings, The Baker Family

Wisemen Still Follow Him!

2009-12-20T21:41:00.005-07:00

"And when they had come into the house, they saw the young Child with Mary his mother, and fell down and worshiped Him. And when they had opened their treasures, they presented gifts to Him: gold, frankincense, and myrrh."

- Matthew 2:11

When the Wisemen of the day saw the star, they set out on a journey of love. They traveled for what is estimated as 2 years before they reached the One they had prepared their treasures for. We can learn much from these Wisemen! "Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also" - I am just beginning to realize the truth & depth of this insight. As I've pondered the lesson of the Wisemen, I've discovered 3 steps to gaining wisdom:

1. Seek

2. Worship

3. Give

The greek define "Seek" as pursuing a continued direction with determination to build a stronger relationship; To Worship is to really enter into an intimate relationship of honor and love; And to Give includes more than money - it includes our time, talents, encouragement, our heart! The Reward is that ALL our needs and wants are met!

We know that in this life, we WILL face challenges; the question I've been considering is have I been "Wise" at all times? Did I seek after God, make time to worship Him, and find opportunities to give when I felt blessed and abundant or does it take a trial to turn my heart towards the One who created me? I'd like to think I've always followed after this One with every passion within me, however, that would be a lie. The true story is that it took a moment in time that far exceeded my worst dreams to turn my heart toward the One who is my source and my strength.

It was 2 years ago this month that I began my own journey of love. Prior to that snowy morning, I was completely immersed in the world I had created that was based on one justification after another. I had spent most of my life looking for validation and fulfillment from anyone rather than THE One. I had turned my back on love believing I needed something more . I became a mom burdened with children. I had become a woman without purpose. I had given my heart over to the lies of an adversary that would stop at nothing to "kill, steal, and destroy". Praise God that the way out was already paved for me by the Gift of my Savior, His Son, even Jesus Christ!!

It was in this moment of desperation that I looked for a star that would lead me to ALL that I desired! I am still grateful for the mercy of our Heavenly Father! I had turned my back on him and given my heart to another, and yet the moment I cried out for Him, He was there with open arms! Just as promised, He had never left nor forsaken me, and so with a new sense of direction, I began my journey of love. Little did I know that this walk would bring great heartache, accountability, pain, healing, forgiveness, grace, love, and joy. Truly, as I began to Seek Father, I found a peace that surpassed understanding. I began to hunger and thirst after His righteousness! My passion to spend time with Father grew into a love affair of my heart! I noticed that as I sought after this intimacy with Father, He responded with abundant grace, love, purpose, joy, and understanding. I began to be wise.

I found that making time to worship Father in the midst of my heartbreak brought great comfort. I learned to trust...in this One who loves me in spite of myself, in myself, and in my love. I learned to forgive as I experienced forgiveness. I learned to focus as I found purpose. I learned to love. A habit and heart of worship was instilled in me that continues to flow through me!

I began to know the fulfillment of seeking and worshiping this One that gave so much for me, and in turn found joy in giving. I began to give precious treasure as I followed the examples laid out before me. I found the joy and blessing of giving my heart back to my Savior, my husband, and my children. How great is God to fill me with a renewed passion for these relationships. I was quickly filled with All that I had spent years looking for in all the wrong places! Isn't it sweet how blessed we are to open our eyes and find all we are seeking right in front of us?

This 2 year journey has brought great change! I have experienced healing and restoration in my marriage and family that could have only come by Divine Intervention! As I have followed after the Bright Morning Star, I have found the One! I have come to look forward with expectation to the reward of seeking, worshiping, and giving - not as "Shamu" looks for the reward of performance; but, rather as a daughter knowing her Father's delight in this journey! I do not believe or suggest that I have "arrived" at a destination of completion. I do know that I am on my way, and can find joy in the journey, and peace from the One that truly is my source!

It is my prayer this holiday season, that I would always be found Seeking, Worshiping, and Giving. I pray that I will continue to be Wise in both the seasons of learning as well as in times of harvest; through the easy and the difficult! May my treasures always point towards the One who holds my heart!

May God continue to bless you Always in All Ways!!

Merry Christmas!

Thankful

2009-11-29T22:46:00.005-07:00

"Give Thanks to the Lord"

We have had an amazing week full of Thanksgiving! We celebrated Jeff's Birthday on Wednesday at our favorite pizzeria, Grimaldi's in Chandler. The children had a great time honoring him, and included a card "Top 10 things I'm grateful for about Dad". Next, we enjoyed Thanksgiving with incredible food, football, and relaxing together! I love that each year I get more confident in preparing our meals, and therefore enjoy the day much more! And then, we topped of our weekend with Date Night! Jeff & I got to "toast" to ALL that we are grateful for with dinner for 2 last night!

As we've spent time reflecting over the past year, and all that God is doing in our lives, we are filled with joy for the journey and gratitude for the growth! I think the process of reflecting and expressing gratitude glorifies God. It is through this process of Counting our Blessings that we give Him the glory and honor for ALL that we have. In this humble place of gratitude our hearts are open and soft, such fertile ground for the Spirit to plant.

Thank you all for being a part of our journey as we grow in being blessed to be a blessing!

Love Language Week

2009-11-09T01:28:00.007-07:00

"For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he"

Proverbs 23:7

About a month ago, Jeff & I began an amazing journey together, unified in our desire for greater depth and direction as parents. Little did we know at the time, the impact "Train Up A Parent" would have on our family!

Earlier this year, as a family, we began defining our Mission and Purpose. This powerful inquiry led us to passionately stand for Leadership Education as a lifestyle. Based on the principles of "A Thomas Jefferson Education", we boldly stepped into a journey of faith. We began seeking inspiration on what it means to "train up a child in the way they should go". Could it be that to train a child is to FIRST train the parent? And if so, how and where to begin - especially considering our season in life? This led us to the place where Jeff & I are beginning to understand what Godly Character is and how to instill this vital teaching into our hearts AND the hearts of our children.

I have come to know the truth of Proverbs 23:7 over the past couple of years in ways I could not have anticipated. What was in my heart defining my thoughts and therefore actions? What had I instilled in my children that would define their thoughts and actions? Had I instilled Godly Character? An uncomfortable inquiry has led me to a renewed sense of intention and purpose as a daughter of God and a mother!

Knowing that God is a God of Restoration and Healing, and realizing that it's never too late to align with Him; I am excited to parent today for what we want tomorrow. This perspective has been extremely profound for me! Godly Characteristics are instilled with love, patience, and consistency; and determine the level of success each of us will enjoy. What better place to focus my heart? This has been a time of "internal housekeeping" - identifying the habits and beliefs that exemplify Godly Character and dismissing everything else. I am finding this process requires daily alignment. I am also finding great joy in this journey!

We have gained several new tools to implement as a family which are producing results of greater peace, unity, and connection! I'll share more of these another time. As for this week, we are going to focus on Gary Chapman's Five Love Languages. Identifying each others primary Love Languages will assist us in communicating our love more effectively; which is certainly our intention. I am looking forward to rewarding Michelle and Anthony's ability to identify and apply each Love Language in various ways. I hope that by the end of this week we can be a multi-lingual family! I plan to introduce one Love Language each day and discuss it as part of our morning family devotion. It is my desire that these discussions will produce actions full of love!

I am SO grateful for my amazing family! I feel SO blessed to be a wife and mother surrounded by my greatest teachers! I am especially grateful for the wisdom and understanding of How to Train Up this parent such that I might Inspire my Children's Very Best!

New Opportunity

2009-10-14T14:07:00.010-07:00

"She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night."

Proverbs 31:18

Michelle and I are going to step into the world of Avon. I have been an Avon supporter for some time now, appreciating the cost effective quality, however, had been content to purchase from someone else. Last week, my good friend, made me an offer I couldn't refuse. She invited me to become an Avon rep which will allow me to enjoy the products for an even more reasonable price, as well as, easily generate some additional cash flow for our home. Initially, I was not too interested, having been down the Direct Marketing route before. Then, as I pondered the opportunity, I found value in being frugal (deodorant for $.99 vs $3.99 at the store); setting my hands to something that can contribute to our household resources; and create a learning experience for Michelle and I. I am actually excited to play in this area! Avon has done amazing things to make the shopping experience easy as well. I appreciate this, given my desire to invest my time wisely. I continue to aspire to be a Proverbs 31 woman, and believe this season will add new opportunities for learning and growth.

This particular opportunity was not something I specifically choose - I did not wake up one morning shouting, "I want to be an Avon Rep". I had been praying for opportunities where my talents and experiences could bless our family and others. I had envisioned what this might look like and had been waiting not-so-patiently for something to show up. I wonder how many times in my life I've missed an answer to a prayer by overlooking opportunities that were right in front of me. I also wonder how my own agenda and prerequisites have limited my opportunities. I have recently been considering my prayers and communication with my Heavenly Father. Have I become self-centered? Have I been praying for blessings, and then lay out before God what I think I need, how things should look, etc.? And then wonder why I don't feel deeply connected to Father, and my heart. What is my purpose? How would I ever reach my destined plan if I am running on automatic self. Free will is the greatest gift our loving Heavenly Father gave me, and I've spent a lot of time expressing my will on demanding, self-centered, flesh driven choices. I realize just how I have been a poor steward of my time, talents, and faith. I feel I've contridicted myself in praying; Father, please bless me but here's how I want to be blessed. Where has my faith been?

How grateful I am for the Atonement of our Savior, Jesus Christ!! His loving sacrifice not only offers grace to me when I loose sight of faith, He also modeled what it is to lay down self and truly align with the will of Heavenly Father. In the Garden of Gethsemane, as he plead with Father; "take this cup from me" - that was a prayer of self; but Jesus did not stop there. He continued his plea, "not my will, but thine be done". In that moment, the ultimate sacrifice was made. To lay down my will immediately allows Father to step in and move things according to His greater perspective. What an amazing plan!!!

I pray that this understanding moves me with greater faith! I pray that as I lay down my own agenda, I will connect with the opportunities and plans the Father desires for me. I firmly believe that my God is a good God all the time!! He wants to bless us abundantly, and it is my will to align with Him moment by moment. Enjoying the journey!! Being grateful for the happy mess of goo because I experienced the joy of my children's imaginations and play. Taking time to swing with my kids at the park, rather than just observe from the sideline. Connecting with my daughter's heart as she openly shares her dreams and desires even though it's WAY past bedtime. Being in a place of gratitude to enjoy all of the opportunities God affords me!! I am so grateful to be a daughter of such a loving Heavenly Father!! I commit to move forward with an open heart - available to see and share all that my talents, experiences, and opportunites can bless and be blessed.

Happy Columbus Day!!

2009-10-12T22:25:00.009-07:00

Last week as we were reviewing the family calendar for this month, Jeff shared fond memories of Columbus Day Celebrations from his youth. Most people who know us, KNOW how proud we are of Jeff's Italian Heritage! Jeff grew up in a small town in New Jersey - 1 traffic light small. The town was primarily populated by families with Italian Heritage. Each year the entire town celebrated Catholic Feasts and holidays, Italian style with lots of food and fun!! Columbus Day was no exception given Christopher's "Goomba-ness". As Jeff shared his memories, I desired to create a special day, as a family, we could honor this courageous Italian (Christopher Columbus). So, with that in mind, Super Mom went into overdrive. I began looking for fun ways to learn about Christopher Columbus and to create a memory for our family. What a fun journey, I know I'm on overdrive when I'm dreaming about Columbus Day Craft Ideas.

Here's what we created:

Time: 10:30am - 1:30pm

Place: Mesa Riverview Park; Mesa, AZ

I packed a picnic lunch, library books, scooters, and craft supplies; and we headed off to the park. I was very excited knowing that our local park has a fishing pond we could utilize today. The kids even went to bed last night with a renewed sense of excitement for a fun day of learning. When we arrived, we found a covered pavilion placed between the pond and the playground - Perfect!! We set up camp so to speak, and began making our Walnut Shell Ships as a souvenir. Supplies needed:**

Walnut Shell Half
Small Ball of Playdough
Construction Paper Triangle
Straw and Tape

Cut the straw to desired length, tape paper triangle onto straw for the sail; place small ball of playdough into walnut shell; stick sail into playdough ball. Fabulous!!

Next, we did some word search puzzles and worksheets on Christopher Columbus. While we worked on these, we talked about what made this man memorable. I was happy to find the kids interested in the conversation. We were able to discuss character traits like courage, passion, patience, vision, inspiration, and determination. We talked about how things don't always go as planned, but that we can always find value in the journey. Overall, I was SO grateful for the inspiring time!!

Now, it was time to play and get ready for lunch. Michelle and Anthony surprised me by using the playground euipment to "act out" their own sea adventure. They wanted some sailor tools, so we made a telescope and binoculars.**

Papertowel Roll
Toilet Paper Roll
Bendy Straw
Construction Paper
Tape or Glue

We first cut the TP Roll in half and measured the distance between Tony's eyes. Next, we rolled the TP Rolls and the PT Roll in construction paper. We cut 2 small slits in the side of the TP Rolls. We then cut the bendy straw so the the bendy part coule be our "nose piece". We were able to insert the cut bendy straw into the slits in the TP Rolls, and taped the insides. We decorated the Telescope and added additional tape to our binoculars in secure the ends, and tahdah, we were ready to explore!

After lunch, it was time to create our Masterpiece Replicas - The Nina, The Pinta, and The Santa Maria.**

3 empty plastic gallon jugs
3 paper napkins
3 plastic knives
3 straws

We began by cutting the plastic jugs about 1.5 inches from the bottom. We'll save the top part to use as sand scoopes and funnels. We then labeled the ships with a permanent marker. Next, we taped the straw to the inside to attach the sail to. We then decorated the paper napkins as our sails, and taped them to the plastic knives. Finally, we taped the plastic knives with sails onto the straws, and we were ready to set sail. We then launched our ships into the pond, and imagined what it would have been like that fateful August day in 1492. We were almost as excited and nervous as I'm sure the sailors were.

It was SO fun to watch our ships float across the water, and then 1 took on water and began to sink, and then a 2nd one did the same. It was fun to again talk about how things did not go exactly how Columbus had anticpated, just as we experience in our lives.

We had read from a library book, I Sailed with Columbus by Susan Martin. In this book, it described sailing through green sludge at one point. We decided to come home and make green goo** to experience what it might have been like to sail through it.

1 cup of Cornstarch
1 cup of COLD water
food coloring

Slowly add the Cold water to the cornstarch, stirring as you go. This mixture will be both dry and wet - which makes it SO cool!! Then we added green food coloring and mixed it in. This goo looks wet on the counter, but feels dry; and then, as soon as you pick it up, it is slimy and wet. Messy Fun!!

"Man cannot discover new oceans unless he has the courage to loose sight of the shore!"

I think this quote totally sums up what we've learned from studying and celebrating Columbus. It is by faith and courage that great things happen! When we are willing to "set sail" with the "Great Captain", life becomes an adventure!! May we also leave a legacy of faith, courage, action, and inspiration!!

Sew for Service

2009-10-06T10:53:00.004-07:00

Proverbs 31:13 She seeks wool and flax, and willingly works with her hands.

My daughter, Michelle and I began our beginner's sewing class yesterday with Dawn Brown's Sew for Service. Dawn is a home-school mom/grandma that teaches the art of sewing along with the value of serving. Our final sewing project for this semester will be to make hospital gowns and bonnets for preemie babies and then to deliver them to the hospital. What an AWESOME opportunity! We began by learning the basics of a sewing machine - how to turn it on, what essential parts of the machine are, and how to thread it; and then we made a Cinnamon Scented Sachet from scratch (as seen above). It was such a joy to take pride in something so feminine along side of my daughter and 4 other girls. My mother is an incredible seamstress, however, it wasn't until recently that I really had the desire to acquire this skill. I am so grateful for the opportunity to share this experience with Michelle!! She is certainly gifted in working with her hands, and like her big sister, Theresa, came equipped with the ability and desire. I suppose this is part of our nurturing nature as women, however, I've spent most of my life focusing on my musical talents, rather than my homemaking abilities. Now, after almost 20 years of marriage, I am finding this incredible passion to honor the nurturer in me!! I am finding a desire to be a Proverbs 31 woman! To rise up in contribution and inspiration of my family, especially my daughters. To prepare and equip them to honor the woman in them. I am equally grateful for a mother who, through her example and skill development, modeled the value of being a homemaker. It is now my joy and honor to be the maker of our home, and not just an emotional female resident. I am certainly not suggesting that the only way to be a nurturer is by sewing and canning. I am, however sharing my newly awakened sense of joy in learning new skills that set me a part from my manly husband in contributing to our family. May the Lord bless us as we Rise Up For Such A Time As This, and may these new skills glorify the One who instilled them in me!!

A Praying Mother

2009-09-19T20:29:00.008-07:00

Psalm 127:3 Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb is a reward.

Releasing my children into God's hands did not come as easy for me, as I thought it might. I became a mother 18.5 years ago, and I will NEVER forget the beautiful little girl that looked into my eyes that Easter morning. Theresa came into this world full of the joy and hope of Heaven!! She brought a sense of independence; for me, as well as a desire for her own. As a young mother, I knew we would learn a lot together. The miracle of life - what a blessing!! Then, just 8 months later when we learned we would have another bundle of joy to add to our family, my heart leaped with anticipation for life and all that lay ahead. So it was that when Madeline joined our family nine months later, Jeff & I rejoiced with the honor of caring for and loving such beautiful daughters!! How precious it is to love and nurture life. Even though I was just beginning to understand what it meant to love and nurture, I embraced this opportunity with gratitude and confidence! Madeline & Theresa filled our home with giggles, singing, and beauty - what more could I want? Knowing that I was not a "perfect" mother, I found comfort and hope in the fact that I was a "praying" mother!! It wasn't until the last couple of years, however, that I began relying on the power of being a praying mother more that trying to be a perfect mother.

Our road has not been an easy one, but it has been worth it; just as Jesus promised. There were many lessons for me yet to learn! Regardless of the lives dependent on me, I was still learning how to depend on a Heavenly Father that not only loves me intimately, but also enables me to love the children he entrusted to me. Knowing that you can't give what you don't have, I had some work to do. At just 20 years of age, I realized that having a family was not the same as playing house. At this point, rather than moving forward in humility allowing God to mold me into the mother, wife, nurturer, and daughter He intended; I proudly stepped forward with the delusion of "having it all under control". Needless to say, I spent many years going through the motions as I thought they should be, blind to the fact that had I only asked, the Holy Spirit sat anxiously waiting to show me how to be all that I desired. I loved being a mother, however, looking back I can see just how pride, ignorance, and distractions cost me the intimate relationship I so longed for with my children. In my self-righteousness, I believed that I had built a relationship with these precious daughters that was safe and secure. I've spent time with the Lord studying this idea of security, and have come to believe that the Lord did not come so that we would feel secure; He came that we would have life more abundant! I have learned that it was only when I chose to truly walk by faith, seeking hard after God that I actually found peace!! Perhaps then, security is a delusion the adversary would have us seek after rather that learning to lean on and trust our Father.

My heart is full as I walk the road of accountability, forever grateful for the Atonement of our Savior!! I am also grateful for the lessons I have learned along the way and continue to learn about the joy of life! It is my heart to share these lessons as a testament of God's faithfulness and love for His children. I intend to do so over the next few posts. Just as life is a journey, so will be my account of it. I wish to end this post by sharing a prayer from Stormie Omartian's book, "The Power of a Praying Parent" inviting you to join me in the journey of being a praying mother:

Lord, I submit myself to You. I realize that parenting a child in the way You would have me to is beyond my human abilities. I know I need You to help me. I want to partner with You and partake of Your gifts of wisdom, discernment, revelation, and guidance. I also need Your strength and patience, along with a generous portion of Your love flowing through me! Teach me how to love the way You love. Where I need to be healed, delivered, changed, matured, or made whole, I invite You to do that in me. Help me to walk in righteousness and integrity before You. Teach me Your ways, enable me to obey Your commandments and do only what is pleasing in Your sight. May the beauty of Your Spirit be so evident in me that I will be a godly role model. Give me the communication, teaching, and nurturing skills that I must have. Make me the mother You want me to be and teach me how to pray and truly intercede for the life of the children you entrust to me. Lord, You said in Your Word, "Whatever things you ask in prayer, believing, you will receive" (Matthew 21:22). In Jesus' name I ask that You will increase my faith to believe for all the things You've put on my heart to pray for concerning these children.

Many Blessings,

Nanette

Hosting a Homeschool Seminar

2009-09-10T17:17:00.006-07:00

Penny Gardner has accepted my invitation to come to AZ on 10/24/09! I am really excited to assist her in hosting this event along with my homeschooling friend, Andee!! Penny is an expert on the Charlotte Mason Approach, so this event should be very educational and inspiring!!

I am standing for a successful event with registration of 75 or more local families interested in learning about this powerful teaching approach! It is such an awesome experience to utilize the gifts I've been given in a way that will contribute to the vision of others! I look forward to a joyful event!!

Check out this blog for easy registration - http://cminaz.blogspot.com/

11 Years Old...

2009-09-01T19:29:00.009-07:00

Michelle turns 11 today!!

We have enjoyed a wonderful day honoring Michelle! She is an amazing, beautiful, talented, giving, intelligent, deep young lady whom I am honored to call daughter!

Michelle has been contemplating what instrument she would like to learn to play, so that she could grow her love for singing and writing. About 6 weeks ago, she asked if she could have a guitar; AND of course were were so excited to bless her with her first guitar today! We found a hot pink, parlor size, "First Act" instrument that I felt would serve her as she began to learn. She LOVED it!! I have no doubt that God has given Michelle the ability to glorify Him through music and I eagerly look forward as this talent and passion becomes a skill that can bless others. Just like King David of old, whose skill as a young musician placed him in relationship with the King, which later opened the doors of opportunity God had prepared for him to lead. It is so exciting to watch our children grow and find their passions and gifts - I am especially grateful that ALL of our children share a love of music!! Yeah Me!

Our first few weeks of school have been a great success!! We are ALL adjusting to our new schedule and enjoy our flexibility to play and learn together!! I am SO grateful for the opportunity to inspire Michelle and Anthony into their greatness!! We've always felt that we were raising and cultivating leaders, however, I now feel equipped with tools that will truly move them forward! Again, Yeah Me!!

We have been SO blessed lately with wisdom and directions. I love how God is faithful to answer our prayers with More Than Enough when we are truly open to receive. Jeff had really been seeking God's direction for how to grow our business, and almost as quickly as he asked, we received our next opportunity. It reminded me of a time we were driving in an unfamiliar town, and just as we were sure we were lost, a HUGE sign appeared to provide accurate directions for us to safely proceed to our desired destination. It is a sweet, sweet thing to understand how to really walk in God's promise of oneness (with Jeff and Father)! Likewise, I am grateful that God is NOT subject to this world's economic situation and offers his own economic stimulus!!

So it is with abundant gratitude that I reveal in the joy of being a mother, wife, and daughter of God!!

First Day of School!

2009-08-17T22:31:00.005-07:00

What an excellent day! Many years ago, Jeff & I felt called to Home Educate our children, however, allowed circumstances to dictate our choice. Needless to say, we fell into the "Conveyor Belt" education out of convenience and a sense of obligation. In spite of many years of trusting a system to teach and "raise" our children, we continued to consider this call to Home Education. Theresa recently completed her K-12 education with Madeline close behind through traditional means. Now, more than ever I found myself considering the results, wondering if there was more that I can offer my children in preparing them to fulfill the Divine Mission they've been sent here to fulfill. I began researching many education models - Public, Private, Charter, and MANY Home Education options. While prayerfully considering what would best support Michelle and Anthony in moving forward in their education, we found A Thomas Jefferson Education model. To consider the type of education our Founding Fathers received along with many world leaders, I was directed back to Classic Novels inspiring a strong sense of value and character. Knowing that we are raising future leaders, it is my heart's desire to better equip them to be Problem Solvers, doers rather than followers, courageous, valiant young people. After much prayer and study, we chose to step out in faith and accountability knowing that who better equipped than us to best support Michelle and Anthony in achieving such results. With clear direction, we began Leadership Education today with great success and prospect!! Michelle and Anthony are eager to learn and grow at a pace that suits them individually. By understanding Learning Phases, we are able to proceed supporting Anthony in his Core Phase and Michelle in her Love of Learning Phase!

What an exciting time for our family!! I am so thrilled and relieved to have found direction and clarity in supporting our family to be the leaders we are all called to be. It is truly "For such a time as this" that we have all been called to Rise Up and Be Counted. I intend to begin at home in impacting the world. I am confident that with continued prayer and planning, we can successfully rise to this occasion and become Scholars, Statesmen and Stateswomen, Liber, Leaders, Problem Solvers, and Lights in this darkening world.

In James 1: 2-3 of our central canon, the Bible; we are reminded to "Count it all for joy". I've often thought this was good advice, but wondered, how do I really do that in the midst of circumstances that seem beyond my ability to survive, let alone thrive. As the past 2 years have unfolded, I have had the opportunity to practice this wonderful direction. I have been so grateful to find joy in the midst of unbelievable stretching (trials)! I am so grateful for my understanding and testimony of trusting the process in faith rather than fear. Out of this journey, I've grown and found blessings beyond my best dreams. God is SO good - only all the time!

I hope to inspire my family and friends to Rise Up and Be Counted! Now is the time! It is possible! We are equipped! It is time for our family to choose our course of action rather than allow circumstances to dictate our route!! Praise God for "Second Chances"! It is my joy to share our journey as we move forward in faith to Glorify God and Be a Blessing!

Coming home to Arizona

2009-08-07T20:12:00.002-07:00

Look out AZ, here we come! Michelle, Anthony & I joined Jeff in Mesa, AZ on July 1st. What an exciting time for our family! I am feeling very blessed for new opportunities and renewed faith. We have been in a season of preparing, but for what exactly was unclear.

I am constantly amazed and inspired by how much our Heavenly Father knows and loves each one of us! We had been praying for direction in our life wanting to be a blessing. We also asked Father to make things obvious. Needless to say, he is faithful to His word, and not only did He answer our prayers, He did so in such a way that we could not be confused by it. Having spent years in Arizona, moving back brings a sense of coming home for us. At the same time, it meant leaving family whom we love and treasure. Knowing that it was time to move forward, I found myself stepping out in faith.

As we began to prepare for this move, I found myself immersed in Scripture. What I found were simple reminders that Heavenly Father loves us, and truly desires to bless us if we'll let Him. It was with this renewed perspective that we stepped into a new season, and God is good! I continue to immerse myself into the Word of God, coming to know Him more intimately. In the process I am being refined and polished for "Such a time as this". Daily I am finding words of encouragement, counsel, and love. I am beginning to apply the principles of salvation as I grew in gratitude for the Atonement of Jesus Christ. How all encompassing it is, as I broden my understanding and mature in the Lord. I am so grateful for a husband that loves the Lord and aspires toward greatness in Him. I am also grateful for amazing children that continue to grow strong! How sweet it is to move through this journey of life within the structure of family!

As we rise up to be counted, I look forward with great faith and expectation that the best is yet to come!

I am SO blessed!

2009-04-15T23:50:00.001-07:00

How did I get to be so blessed to enjoy these AMAZING children?

How Time Flies...

2009-01-20T15:06:00.002-07:00

So, another month has gone by; and my how time flies! Things continue to be busy in the Baker home as we create stability, consistancy, and joy.

We had a wonderful Christmas, filled with the Spirit of Christ! Michelle & Anthony have such generous spirits, and truly enjoy giving. It was such a pleasure to share in their excitment as we prepared gifts for friends and family. I noticed this sense of abundance as each of us surveyed all that we had been blessed with, along with an overwhelming desire to share. What a blessing it is to feel gratitude, especially in the midst of growing and stretching!!

As the new year has begun, we are implementing a new Family Economy patterned after the Eyre Family - valuesparenting.com. Michelle & Anthony are eager to take ownership of their "home zones" and family callings! This sense of order seems to add to the stability and peace we are each experiencing. Jeff extended family callings to Michelle & Anthony at Family Home Evening last night. He called Anthony to be his First Counselor with a charge to assist in the order of our home. He is asked to assign responsibilities for each FHE, call our family to daily prayers, scripture study, and weekly FHE. Anthony was most pleased to be "the man of the house" when Father is not available, ensuring the safety of our family. Michelle was called to be the family secretary with a charge to assist our family in taking minutes at FHE, be our family historian, photographer, and financial clerk. Jeff & I hope these callings can not only offer training in their specific areas, but also prepare them for future opportunities to serve. Jeff set both Michelle & Anthony apart and gave them a blessing that they would have soft hearts, continue to make wise choices, and honor the gifts and talents they've been given.

We are also "revamping" our household responsibilities to better account for where the children are at. We want to instill a sense of participation and contribution, rather than entitlement and demands. We will be "sharing" the household income with the children as they share in the household responsibilities. Everyone will be assigned a "home zone" to manage along with keeping their rooms in order, and following the family laws we've established. We expect this sense of participation will serve to train them in life skills as well as creating a sense of partnership and teamwork.

We also have begun Martial Arts Training as a family. Michelle & Anthony both have amazing athletic abilities, they are fast, flexible, and strong. We hope that this type of training will assit them in focus, teamwork, discipline, and confidence. So far, we are noticing just this. It is also an excellent way for Jeff & I to expand our commitment to health and wellness. We are equally looking forward to this new experience.

Theresa & Madeline continue to be "missing" for nearly three weeks now. We are grateful for all the efforts being made to find them, and bring them to safety, and look forward with hope and faith that they are healthy and happy.

Jeff has recently been called as the Elder's Quorum Family History Committee Representative. This brings the reminder and challenge to "Turn our Hearts to our Fathers". We look forward to taking on this opportunity with all the passion and committment we have. We know we are called to seek out the records of our family, and nothing should stay our efforts. We anticipate many miracles as we begin this worthy endeavor.

So, it is with new beginnings, renewed committments, and joy that we move forward together!!

Happy Holidays!

2008-12-08T22:57:00.002-07:00

So, I'm still getting used to this idea of blogging...

Things have been quite busy around our home! Stretching and growing through this season of faith building.

Michelle and Anthony are home - what an amazing blessing!!

Rezults Fitness, LLC continues to grow and develop!!

We are preparing for Christmas, and creating a season of traditions and depth for our family. We have been focusing on the Savior's birth, life, and sacrifice for us - what a powerful journey!

I am in gratitude for our many blessings! How sweet to reflect on priorities and progress.

Hello

2008-08-28T18:08:00.002-07:00

This is great fun! I am so new to blogging, and eager to get up to speed. I intend to use this space as a source of inspiration and an expression of gratitude. Our life is very full these days, and I am grateful for the joy, and abundance I am experiencing!